Iconoclastic

Description

Some personalities are simply better suited for what we call a “conventional” life. Examples of a conventional life include getting a stable job, getting married, and having children, while staying in one city and adhering to social and cultural norms of their group.

While some people thrive in a traditional lifestyle, others may struggle with the expectations and demands that come with it.

For those others, who we call Iconoclasts in this framework, conforming to traditional social expectations can be challenging, unfulfilling, and mentally distressing.

This innate desire or ability to conform to norms is largely beyond our control. Some people are simply wired for it better than others. Unfortunately, our society often places a great deal of pressure on individuals to conform to a certain standard.

High scorers

High scorers are not very well suited to the traditional life. Finding a satisfying life path requires them to chart their own course. Doing this successfully requires truly understanding and accepting themselves, being honest about their strengths and weaknesses, and finding a network of people who share their perspectives and goals to pursue a different life in a healthy way.

High scorers should not compare themselves to what is “normal” or look for validation from traditional sources. But likewise, they should be careful not to begrudge or resent others for having or desiring a more conventional life.

Low scorers

Low scorers lean toward embracing a traditional life. They likely find comfort and fulfillment in the stability and structure it offers.

It is important for low scorers to ensure that their choices are genuinely aligned with their own desires and not simply influenced by societal expectations. This requires occasionally checking in with themselves and ensuring that they're pursuing their passions and finding personal growth along the way.